FAQ

Please RSVP by the date indicated on your invitation so we can finalize headcounts and logistics. The sooner the better — especially for the hotel room block.

Yes — children are warmly welcomed at all events. The Anand Karaj is a reverent ceremony, so please keep little ones close and step out to the lobby if needed. The Jago and Reception are lively celebrations where kids will have a great time.

The Anand Karaj ("blissful union") is the Sikh wedding ceremony. It takes place in the Darbar Hall of the Gurudwara in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scripture. The ceremony features Kirtan (devotional music) and four Lavan (ceremonial rounds) that symbolize the couple's spiritual journey together. It is a beautiful and deeply meaningful ceremony, and we are honored to share it with you. Check out the Events page for the full day-of schedule.

Yes — head coverings are required for all guests inside the Gurudwara, regardless of gender or background. Scarves and dupattas will be available at the entrance if you don't have one. Shoes are also removed before entering — clean socks are your best friend.

Yes. Langar — the community meal served after the Anand Karaj — is always vegetarian. It is a Sikh tradition of equality and generosity, and the food is delicious. Please let us know of any dietary restrictions or allergies in your RSVP.

Each event has its own dress code — see our Attire page for a full breakdown. Short version: bright and festive for the Jago, modest traditional for the Anand Karaj, and glamorous for the Reception.

Photography is welcome from the sides and back of the Darbar Hall during the ceremony. Please silence your phone, avoid moving around during Ardas (prayers), and be mindful of the sanctity of the space. Our photographer will be capturing everything — so feel free to simply be present.

John Wayne Airport (SNA) is the closest — about 15 minutes from the hotel. LAX has the most routes and international connections but is about 45 minutes away (traffic-dependent). See the Travel page for details on all nearby airports.

Yes — a shuttle will depart from the JW Marriott at 8:00 AM on Friday, November 27 for the Anand Karaj. Return shuttles will run after Langar (around 2:00 PM). If you're driving yourself, parking is available at the Gurudwara.

November in Orange County is mild and sunny — expect 65–75°F (18–24°C) during the day, with cooler evenings around 55°F. No need for heavy coats, but bring a light jacket for outdoor evening events.

Please note them when submitting your RSVP. We'll share all dietary information with our catering team to accommodate everyone as best we can.

We have carefully considered our guest list. Your invitation will indicate whether you have been allocated a plus one.

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for.

If you'd like to give a gift, we'll share registry details closer to the date. Cash and Venmo are always appreciated for the newlywed fund.

Yes! This site was built almost entirely with Claude Code. It's a Ruby on Rails app, fully database-driven with an admin panel for managing invitations and RSVPs. It's open source — check it out on GitHub.